This past weekend I have had people tell me "you would make a good wife" and frankly I am tired of it. I know they mean well and it is supposed to be a compliment, but it is not helping me at all. They would point out the qualities that make me desirable in a relationship but they don't get the obvious. I'm still SINGLE!!! IF I would make a good wife then why do the guys run the other way? Why is it that the one time a year I need a guy to come through for me, he bails out in the last minute? Is there a sign over my head that says "F off" or something? (Yes that is very crass, but if you've seen the movie HITCH you would understand.) Basically: if I would make a good wife why am I still single?
So please, please, please stop telling me "you would make a good wife". Because the truth of the matter is....I'M NOT MARRIED.
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ummm Jica are you okay?? I got a call from Rachet today telling me to check your blog cause you have her thinking you are going off the deep-end. call me
Allison
I think that people mean the best when they tell you that but it doesn't help you at all. You seem frustrated and I don't blame you.
Jica, I totally feel your pain. I too have been the victim of very similar comments and it royally sucks. And I have just shy of 8 years on you and I'm still not married either!!!!! I've been saying for years it would be nice to have my friends set me up but it never happens....lame.
I hope today is better for you!
Jica, you are a babe, and your man just can't handle you yet! He needs a little more time to prepare for you- You know how slow men can be sometime! ;-)
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